Losing Friend = Part of life
Hej...lama dah aku tak update since busy dengan life baru..then covid 19 menyerang lg..so banyak keje aku menempel je la..hahahahah..so last year, i faced satu situation which is bermula dari salah faham, perli memerli sehingga jd la satu pergaduhan..yaa pergaduhan..even gaduh mulut pun..but deep inside..aku rasa ralat..why..because dah berkawan since sekolah menengah lg...sayang persahabatan tu..but ego maybe..and patience limit tu dah tahap maximum hah...and i really hate people perli2 ni without knowing the real story...
I dont mind orang kata belakang..i dont mind org buruk2kan aku...but aku tak suka kalau org dok perli aku especially dkat socmed ni..nak2 ramai kwn kita dlm friendlist socmed tu..situ bg tanggapan buruk pada kita..how bad we are...
End up, when i was off limit..aku directly texting her and ask why..and lets have coffee talk..we should discuss and clear everything..dia tak nak and lg perli...after that..bermulalah satu pergaduhan yang i didnt expect this will happen..i was shaking texting her because i tried so hard to control my anger...i was devasted with her..i do love her as friend..but now everything torn apart and both of us act like stanger...
Dear anyone out there..
Perli memerli ni tak mendatangkan faedah pun...menyakitkan lg ade la..why..sbb end up bergaduh and never be like we used to be..everything will come with awkward feeling...so kalau ade yang tak puas hati, better berterus terang..even bende yang kau tak puas hati tu just small matter and look childish...atleast tak akan end up dengan pergaduhan yang besar..
Lower ego..accept everything..selidik dulu why and what.....
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